We all make mistakes and the same goes for those who either work for us or work on our team. When somebody really makes a mistake, the whole world seems to come to a screeching halt when both the problem and the person who caused it are finally identified. What you do next will define how everything turns out. You’ve got a bunch of options:
- Don’t Go Bi-Polar: All of us tend to favor an extream reaction when we realize that a mistake has happened. Either we blow our top and insist that someone else is responsible or we get very embarassed and think “Oh no, I really screwed up this time.” Both reactions are the wrong response — instead, take a step back to evaluate the situation and keep calm even if that is the hardest thing in the world to do.
- Plan, Plan, Plan: don’t ignore the problem. And yes, you should probably tell your boss about it so that he hears it from you and not someone else. Be sure that you accept responsibility (I mean, what else can you do?) and make sure that you have a plan for what to do next BEFORE you tell him.
- Don’t Point Fingers of Blame: Focus on finding a solution to the problem instead of focusing on the source of the problem. One key aspect of IT jobs is that we seem remember and reward the heroes who fix problems and we rarely seem to remember how the problems happened in the first place. This is your time to shine!
- Find A Problem Mentor: If ever there was a time in your career to find someone to talk to about your situation this is it. Keep in mind that they may not be in your office and may not even work for your company. Find them, explain the situation, and seek their guidance as to what you should be doing next.
- Say That You Are Sorry: Amazingly enough, this may be the perfect time for you to simply say “I’m sorry”. A sincere apology may be the hardest thing in the world for you to do; however, it may act like a sudden rain storm over a forest fire. If an apology is not appropriate or needed, then at least state how you feel “This is a bad situation and I’d like to help correct it” and then move on.
We have all made mistakes in our career and we will probably make even bigger ones as we move forward. However, it’s how we react to these mistakes that really defines who we are.